Having played several hundred weddings, I am constantly amazed at the choices that need to be made when deciding what to do about food choices (and their are many!) for the big event. A friend of mine is getting married soon, and asked me if I had any ideas concerning what he and his bride to be should do about the menu. I sent him these links and thought they might be helpful to others as well!
http://www.moneycrashers.com/cheap-wedding-reception-food-drink-menu-ideas-budget/
http://www.foodservicewarehouse.com/education/wedding-menu-ideas-tips-/c27518.aspx
http://www.ehow.com/way_5280205_wedding-reception-buffet-menu-ideas.html